Mary-Jane Thornton

Quaker Question Time

organised by the youth project
at 7pm on Tuesday 14 July

A panel of young and older Quakers, compered by Mark Smalley, will gather on zoom to respond to your questions on life and being a Quaker in these times.

This takes place of the event we had hoped to organised in person at Bradford on Avon Meeting House – we hope it will be a fun event and would love you to join us – please sign up in advance at  https://forms.quaker.org.uk/qqt/ . Get in touch with kirstyp@quaker.org.uk with any. questions?

Thanks,
Kirsty

Kirsty Philbrick
Youth Development Worker

Quaker Life

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Statement from Bristol City of Sanctuary

I read the following statement published in Bristol City of Sanctuary June newsletter during Meeting for Worship on 14 June. It seemed to me to sum up the right response to the demonstrations and protests we had seen in Bristol over the previous week or so, and resonates with Quaker values.

The killing of George Floyd at the hands of the police has sent shock waves around the world. His death highlighted, again, the extent of police brutality against the black community in the USA. The global response to this terrible act has also forced us all to confront racist structures that exist within our own countries. In the UK, these include the disproportionate stop and searches of black people, prejudicial assumptions that infiltrate the public and private sphere, the Government’s deliberate creation of a Hostile Environment, the Windrush scandal. Unfortunately, the list is long.

This is not the first time that we have seen such an outpouring of grief and understandable anger. People are tired of discrimination, tired of police brutality, tired of the injustices, tired of fear, tired of structural inequalities that continue to exist within businesses, faith communities, educational and public institutions and that also exist within our government.

“It’s up to all of us – Black, white, everyone – no matter how well-meaning we think we might be, to do the honest, uncomfortable work of rooting it [racism] out. It starts with self-examination and listening to those whose lives are different from our own. It ends with justice, compassion, and empathy that manifests in our lives and on our streets” – Michelle Obama

There are no quick fixes for racism so ingrained in our communities in Britain. However, by continuing to work together locally we can make Bristol a real City of Sanctuary which provides welcome, safety and hope for all. There is so much work to be done but there is also a tangible feeling of hope that things can change for the better.

Black Lives Matter. We stand in solidarity with this movement, and all those who  stand for justice and peace in our city, nationally and around the world. We must listen to the voices that speak their pain and then act decisively on what we hear. Our humanity must speak truth to power until every person is valued equally.

Caroline Beatty – Co-chair, Bristol City of Sanctuary
Reverend Richard McKay – Co-Chair, Bristol City of Sanctuary
Forward Maisokwadzo – Manager, Bristol City of Sanctuary

Submitted by Linda Ewles

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Meetings for Learning goes Zoom

We are holding the first virtual Meeting for Learning on 21 June, using Zoom. ‘Real’ Meetings for Learning, normally held on the 3rd Sunday of the month at 10am, of course stopped after the March meeting on the theme of the Quaker Peace Testimony.

We’ll see how it goes, but if successful we’ll continue in this way until we can resume meeting in person. Of course we are aware that Zoom meetings don’t work for everybody, but we feel it’s better than nothing. Plus it may have the advantage that Friends who struggle to get to the Meeting House may find Zoom easier.

Plans for future topics include more sessions on the Quaker Testimonies of Equality and Truth: what these mean for Quakers today.

Do please get in touch with any thoughts about topics for future Meetings for Learning, your experience of having these online, and any ideas for improvements.

Linda Ewles
Learning and Action Hub Coordinator

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‘Inside Out ‘– BYM youth projects first online residential was a big success!

One weekend in mid-June the youth project brought 20 young people together for an ‘online residential’… a series of activities including worship, games, discussion, baking, crafting, stories and much more. It was a bit of an experiment in how much connection and fun you can facilitate over zoom and I think it exceeded all our expectations!

Young people involved in the Bristol and Sheffield based youth projects were able to meet, share experiences, build friendships, challenge ideas and participate in a Turning the Tide workshop on ‘Quakers, youth and the world you want to inherit’.

Thanks to all who came along and supported young people to get involved, I think this may be the first of more such online gatherings, so watch this space…

Kirsty Philbrick
Youth Development Worker
kirstyp@quaker.org.uk

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Helping hungry children

The Sunday Appeal on 21 June was for hungry children in Uganda, particularly hit when the coronavirus pandemic meant their school – which was providing food as well as learning – was closed.

This photo shows the children in happier times with mugs of porridge that helped them through the school day.

If you still want to help these hungry children, please go to https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/judith-atkinson?utm_id=2&utm_term=mWN3e6KvV

If you unable to donate online, please contact me and we’ll use another way.

 Linda Ewles

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Meeting for Learning: The Quaker Peace Testimony – what does it mean for us today?

15 March, 10.00 – 10.45 in the Library

Jenni Harris will lead a discussion on The Quaker Peace Testimony – what does it mean for us today? How can we promote peace? We will hear the views of Jenni’s relative who was a conscientious objector in WWI, and think about challenges to pacifism in today’s world.

This theme of Peace links with the showing of the film ‘War School’ on 8 March, and the Peace Lecture on 14 March. These events will undoubtedly raise issues relevant to the Peace Testimony, but of course it’s fine to come to the Meeting for Learning if you didn’t see the film or the Peace Lecture.

Meetings for Learning are usually held monthly in the Meeting House upstairs library. They start at 10.00 prompt, and end at 10.45 so Friends can then go to Meeting for Worship. Everyone is welcome.  Just turn up in time for a 10am start, prepared to be stimulated, challenged or informed – or all three!

There won’t be a Meeting for Learning in April, because so many of us will be at the Friendship Weekend at Ammerdown. Ideas for topics and offers to lead sessions after Easter are very welcome.

Linda Ewles
Coordinator, Learning and Action Hub

 

 

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From What Is to What If

by Rob Hopkins 

Review by Alison Bordes

The two qualities which are most important to children of today are hope and imagination. Hope to believe they can change the world they live in and imagination to find ways to do so.

Janet Galbraith 1986 (Quaker Faith and Practice 23.85)

At the start of a new decade when there is a great deal of gloom around, here is a book to lighten the spirit and give a glimmer of hope.

Rob Hopkins, founder of the Transformation Movement shows how change is possible if we can embrace the idea that by using our imagination and creativity, new perspectives and solutions can be found in facing up to the multiple challenges which confront us. He has experienced transformation in his own community in Totnes and instances around the world where people come together with a common purpose to find new ways to combat personal loneliness, prejudice and negative beliefs about how to deal with a fractured world.

Hopkins exhorts us to use our innate creativity to think beyond what we see in front of us to find better ways of living and behaving. He uses multiple examples of how communities have shown how they have the drive and enthusiasm to achieve realistic solutions.

Climate change, extreme governments and ideologies, loss of biodiversity ecosystems, insecurity both personal and global are all confronted by the author. He has a well-founded belief that we humans have it within us to bring about change if we combine and pull together and each contribute using our imagination. An inspiring book that will be available in the Redland library soon.

What Is to What If by Rob Hopkins (2019) Vermont: Chelsea Green Publishing

 

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My Five Bristol Boys.

                Breathe, breathe in the air,

                             Don’t be afraid to care.

Dean, jiggles – his quaking arms shake his little chair.

Flibbertigibbety.

He’s sick in the gutter.

Fifteen years ago a beautiful rent boy. Lovely teeth destroyed by his habit.

His face a mask – dead already. Too many fake teeth smile.

Drinking coke – On dialysis without clean veins. Kidneys failing: heroin will kill.

Its getting better, getting better all the time – The white horse ended his life it on Christmas Eve last year.

                Breathe, breathe in the air,

                             Don’t be afraid to care.

Matthew stares silent as a penny on the pavement.

Long legs in warm boots. Heads up to stare at the St Matthew’s church on the hill. People scurry past.

Polite soft, sweet baby blue eyes; he came from Bournemouth to Bristol.

Girlfriend gave him HIV.

He’s peeing blood in A and E.

sweet baby blue eyes;

He’s saving £12 for B&B in the Backpacker’s hostel. Bruised face today. Someone stole his sleeping bag. Replacements from Salvation army.

Salvation.

                Leave, don’t leave me.

                             Walk around and chose your own ground.

 

Clive. Bum fluff on chin. Face covered with scabies. Smells of a urinal. Dirty disease. Chip on shoulder. Hates sitting on cardboard.

No mates to look out for him. Sleeps in the Park toilet. Always asks for £21.

Whispers reading the Metro. One finger follows the text.

He’s READING…..

                Breathe, breathe in the air,

                             Don’t be afraid to care.

 

Sean. Dirty hands, nails like claws. Sits opposite the museum in old piss and shade. Rolls up teeny ciggies. Drinks a coffee with 12 sugars. Sleeps in a hedge on Brandon Hill. A little den. Nicotine staining on hands, beard, teeth, face, everything.

Washes in the cold water at the petrol station. One pair of Jeans. HOBBLES.

Yes, to new socks and cash. NO to hat, gloves, scarf.

He’s going to the hostel in Jamaica Street.

” They have real knives and forks there.” One Saturday he’s there and

I never see him again, never see him again.

                Leave, don’t leave me.

                             Walk around and chose your own ground.

 

The other year Sammy Beckenham jumped off the Suspension Bridge and floated to Spike Island.

Obituary Notices in the Bear Pit:-

          Sorry for the misunderstanding Bruv.

          If you saw what I saw in you…..

          My singing buddy xx love Beth.

          Sam you Kethead, give me a line.

          Sam….you beautiful soul, keep singing , keep singing, I’ll never understand you—love and peace.

          Peace and love, love and peace

          Keep singing, keep singing. 

                Breathe, breathe in the air,

                             Don’t be afraid to care.

                Leave, don’t leave me.

                             Walk around and chose your own ground.

                For long you’ll live and High you’ll fly,

                             But only if you’ll ride the tide,

                And balanced on the biggest wave

                             You race towards an early grave.

                Breathe, breathe in the air.*

 

RIP Dean, 24th December 2019

RIP Sam Beckenham October 2017

Sean last seen in August 2015

Matthew seen on the Gloucester Road going to a new flat up Berkley Road, 2017

Clive – still hustling.

*Pink Floyd

 

Poem by Hilary Mayne, in memory of Dean Telfer, one of the many young men she got to know over time who sold The Big Issue, or who begged, or were ill or had mental health issues – and also Sam Beckenham and the people in the Bear Pit who were so devastated by his death. 
submitted by MJ Thornton

 

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Bristol Quaker Peace Lecture 2020

Human Security – Is it possible?

by Diana Francis 
Saturday 14th March 2020, 11 am – 12.30 pm 
at the Peel Lecture Theatre, School of Geographical Sciences, University Road, Bristol BS8 1RL 

The 2020 Bristol Quaker Peace Lecture is being given by Diana Francis, a lifelong peace activist, former President of the International Fellowship of Reconciliation and co-founder of Rethinking Security. Her lecture will look at:

  • What is human security?
  • The military myth
  • Current crises: is there a way forward?
  • Human nature: do we have what it takes?
  • Vision for the future

Diana Francis has worked for many years with local peace actors and combatants seeking to address violence and build peace: in Europe, the Middle East, Africa and Asia. She has written extensively on the basis of that experience.

All are welcome to this free lecture. Please book through Eventbrite – click here or search “human security”

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50 Cities – 50 Traces. One world without nuclear weapons

International Art & Peace Project 2018–20

The Mayors for Peace Exhibition will be in the Vestibules Gallery in City Hall, Bristol throughout February. It will be accessible to the public during the 20 weekdays, and any support from volunteers to help staff the exhibition would be much appreciated.

Please contact the editors if you are interested in participating and require contact details or click here to download more information.

 

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Redland Friendship Weekend: a reminder

17th – 19th April 

A weekend for members, attenders and our families in Redland meeting where we will be exploring the theme of ‘Vision 20/20’

We have booked the Ammerdown Centre near Radstock, so that up to 70 of us can spend a weekend together, involved in a range of all-age activities, sharing meals and having time to relax and get to know each other better. We have chosen the theme of ‘Vision 20/20’, in which we can explore the Quaker vision for our complex world and how we, as Quakers, respond to its challenges. Once again we will be offering opportunities for both inward reflection and outward action while we also explore the meaning of friendship within and beyond our religious community.

The timetable is varied and exciting, with lots of choice, drawing on the many talents and strengths in our Meeting. We will also have plenty of time for old favourites like mindful walking, singing, and of course the quiz! There will be debates, a People’s Assembly, craft activities, discussions about Quaker history and women’s history, Meeting for Worship along with cocoa, a night walk, tree identification and even tree planting. We plan to have an open mic session around the fire wok so perhaps you have a musical instrument you would like to play, a song to share, a rap, a dance to teach us: we look forward to hearing from you! None of these activities are compulsory – if you just want to relax, deepen friendships and explore Ammerdown itself, that’s fine too. You can choose as many, or as few activities as you like, or even none. Just come!

If you have never been away with us and are curious, please ask around; most needs can be met and most concerns answered. Ammerdown is warm and comfortable, well organised and spacious – perfect for our needs. The booking form is available on our the Members and Attenders page of the Redland website (or click here) or at the Meeting House. The cost of the weekend is £210 for an adult and covers full board from 5pm on Friday evening until after lunch on Sunday. This includes £14 to help support those on more limited means. (There are significantly reduced rates for children.) Please do not let the cost be a deterrent: there is financial support available if you require it.

The deadline for booking is February 29th! Please book now.

submitted by Jenni Harris

 

 

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Meetings for Learning – What does it mean for Redland to be a Sanctuary Meeting?

16 February, 10-10.45 in the Library

Caroline Beatty will lead us in considering this question. It is a timely discussion, following the Sanctuary Everywhere annual meeting on 26 January at Redland Meeting House (see elsewhere in this newsletter).  This meeting for learning is open to all friends, and will include discussion of the connection between our Sanctuary commitment and other concerns of the Meeting, such as climate change and homelessness.

Meetings for Learning are usually held monthly in the Meeting House upstairs library. They start at 10.00 prompt, and end at 10.45 so Friends can then go to Meeting for Worship. Everyone is welcome.  Just turn up in time for a 10am start, prepared to be stimulated, challenged or informed – or all three!

Ideas for topics and offers to lead sessions are very welcome. We would especially like Friends to offer to lead sessions on living our other Testimonies – Peace, Equality,Truth – in today’s world.

Linda Ewles
Coordinator, Learning and Action Hub

 

 

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‘War School’ film

Sunday March 8th 

Showing of the film ‘War School’
at Redland Quaker Meeting House

Set against the backdrop of Remembrance, this controversial and challenging documentary reveals how, faced with unprecedented opposition to its wars, the British government is using a series of new and targeted strategies to promote support for the military.

You can watch the trailer on:

https://vimeo.com/276296290

This documentary has generated debate among Friends already!  Come along and see it for yourself on Sunday March 8th, at 2 p.m, immediately after our shared lunch.  The film lasts 82 minutes and is rated 15+ because it contains strong language and some scenes of violence.  The director, Mic Dixon, has been invited to the screening along with others who hold differing views, so there will be some discussion afterwards along with an opportunity to ask questions.

Jenni Harris

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Sanctuary Everywhere – Quaker Refugee Concern

Redland became a ‘Sanctuary Meeting’ in 2017. Our Meeting’s refugee action group was active between 2016-2018!  While we have been less collectively active as a Meeting in refugee support in the past year, many of our member and attenders, both from Redland and other meetings in Bristol Area, continue to be very much engaged in Bristol’s refugee support sector.  Others have significant personal connections with people seeking sanctuary in the city.  It is inspiring and supportive to know what each other is doing.  So this gathering, on 26th January, following a shared lunch, will be an opportunity to share our involvement and experience in the field.  Please come and tell us what you are doing.  I will structure the meeting lightly so everyone gets a chance to contribute and reflect.  I suspect that our collective experience will fully earn us our place in the wider Sanctuary Everywhere movement – let us see.

Whether or not you are active in this field at the moment, of course you are welcome to come.  On 16th February there will be a meeting for learning from 10-10.45am at Redland Meeting House, to reflect on the way in which this concern links with others in the meeting, such as climate change and homelessness.

Caroline Beatty

 

 

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Poem for Grenfell

There has been a silent walk through North Kensington on the fourteenth of every month ever since the fire at Grenfell Tower on 14 June 2017 in which 72 people died.

On December 14th we honour the people, walking in silence in streets associated with the noise and joy of London’s Notting Hill Carnival. This  sends a profound message of defiance.

December 14th Poem for Grenfell

We walk in silence out of respect.
We walk in silence because we are mourning.
We walk in silence because even if we didn’t know someone who died directly, someone who lost their world could be standing next to us.
We walk in silence because words so often offend.
We walk in silence because to speak is to vent and to vent is to rage.
We walk in silence because if we spoke, our throats would burn.
We walk in silence because otherwise our fists would quickly come to talk too.
We walk in silence because our muted presence should scare those responsible.
We walk in silence because we cannot say a word that the events of the 14th June don’t speak for us.
We walk in silence because we carry the weight of history and the burden is easier in quiet.
We walk in silence because it pains those who wish to speak for us.
We walk in silence because if we even whispered about what justice looks like in totality, the streets would stir with revolt.
We walk in silence because it is stealthy.
We walk in silence because we are waiting to be done right by.
The silence has an end point.
The silence is not there to comfort the powerful, it is to soothe those living with hell.

The silence speaks for itself.

Respect what it says. Don’t speak over it.

submitted by Hilary Mayne

 

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Meetings for Learning

Meetings for Learning are usually held monthly in the Meeting House upstairs library. They start at 10.00 prompt, and end at 10.45 so Friends can then go to Meeting for Worship. Everyone is welcome.  Just turn up in time for a 10am start, prepared to be stimulated, challenged or informed – or all three!

Here’s what we’ve got coming up in 2020:

19 January: Simplicity – not a simple testimony

We start the year with a new occasional series about our Quaker Testimonies and what they mean as we try to live our lives by them in the 21st century. This session is led by Heather Lister, when we’ll consider Simplicity – which is far from simple in today’s complex world.

16 February: What does it mean for Redland to be a Sanctuary Meeting?

Caroline Beatty will lead us in considering this question. It is a timely discussion, following the Sanctuary Everywhere annual meeting on 26 January at Redland Meeting House (see elsewhere in this newsletter).  This meeting for learning is open to all friends, and will include discussion of the connection between our Sanctuary commitment and other concerns of the Meeting, such as climate change and homelessness.

Ideas for topics and offers to lead sessions are very welcome. We would especially like Friends to offer to lead sessions on living our other Testimonies – Peace, Equality,Truth – in today’s world.

Linda Ewles
Coordinator, Learning and Action Hub

 

 

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White Poppies at Bristol Cenotaph

Last year Gaie Delap made a beautiful wreath of white poppies and placed it quietly at the Bristol City Centre Cenotaph after the formal Remembrance Day commemoration was over. Somewhat to her surprise, it remained in place for a full year. This encouraged her to repeat her symbolic peace statement in 2019 – this time hoping to achieve a more prominent place for our Quaker peace testimony in a civic ceremony with many possible meanings.

Our Local Meeting for Business gave its support to the placing of a white poppy wreath, so Gaie and I entered into correspondence with the Powers That Be in an attempt to achieve formal inclusion. We wrote to the British Legion and the Lord Mayor of Bristol, before receiving our final answer from the Army officer in charge of ceremonial. The friendly British Legion hoped our request would be accepted. The Lord Mayor’s office raised several practical obstacles, but no objection in principle. The briskly polite Army officer gave us official permission to lay our wreath after the ceremony, and said we would be considered for fuller inclusion next year.

So on 10 November we made our way to the City Centre and watched the Remembrance ceremony with mixed emotions. The crowds were impressive, the procession of uniformed military, cadets and veterans was large and well-drilled, and the City’s political and religious leaders followed in their best finery (and a historic selection of funny hats). The Lord Mayor arrived in a horse-drawn carriage, escorted by mounted police. As the sun shone, guns were fired to start and end the two-minute silence. Then speakers from different faith traditions gave inaudible speeches, a hymn was sung, and prayers were said. Three cadets had fainted by the time we got to the concluding National Anthem.

Gaie and I stepped up to deliver our Quaker wreath as soon as the crowd control barriers were removed. It felt worth doing. But we agreed afterwards that we always find Remembrance Day a trial. Perhaps it is a necessary education for us to engage with the military and to see the extensive support for the Armed Services which apparently still exists in Bristol. Perhaps grieving for the war dead and celebrating the military do not have to go hand in hand. Possibly other spectators had as many mixed feelings as we did ourselves.

Julia Bush

 

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